Reply To OkCupid Blog

It is so interesting reading all of these comments. I don't know, I've been on this site for some years now and I haven't met anyone in person yet. I can't blame it on the site, women, or myself. I just think that's how it is. There's so many people on here, I feel like the grass is always greener. So when a guy (like me) sends a genuine message, the woman has to filter through all the guys that are trying to contact her. So, don't be surprised if the results are low. Maybe there has to be an "it" factor. You know, something that makes you stand out immediately. Probably doesn't take much for someone to lose interest here. But life is always about how you think. If you feel that you will have no luck in finding a mate here, chances are you're attracting that into your life. I think if more people try to be positive, they might attract a positive-thinking mate. -Or maybe someone with good intentions. I don't really think I need this site to meet women. I came here when I couldn't walk in effort to keep some kind of social life. All I have to do is get out of the house more and it won't be long before my "single" status is removed. I think the people that are here complaining should just get out more. Talk to complete strangers and get out of your comfort zone. On top of enhancing your people skills, it may improve how you write messages to someone you're interested in. And just try to be a positive person in general. Don't fake it; having a positive outlook will create a very powerful effect on every aspect of your life...